Once again this week is finals and tomorrow is my last final thank GOD. Something has been on my mind lately and it has been bugging really . I really do not know what God is trying to tell me. It is about a friend who just stop being my friend. Out of all my friends i would never think this person would be out of my life so that is probabley why. I love this person no matter what ..if this person was to call me today and said he or she needed me right now I would come without a doubt. I thought that is how we both felt but I guess not. I just learned that years does not matter when it comes to friendship. I am not saying i was the perfect friend for that person ..i know i made some mistakes but i do deserve a clue before it is all called off completely from that person. To this day I wonder if this person is not affect like does this person even think of me ? It is not that i only call upon that person just only when i needed that person ..i came running when that person invited me to events and supported that person. This lost in my life and yes i said lost has been on my mind for months. Now i do understand everybody has their own definition of friendship and we both were on separate pages that never even been read by eachother. My definition is clearly different from that person because if it was the same we would still be friends. Like you said you saw me as a sister..and a sister is more important than a bestfriend in my world. I just feel if this person looked at me as a sister this person would of told me what he or she had a problem with dealing with me instead of hiding it... because since i considered you as a sister always i would of made some changes for our relationship . Thats how a realtionship works... any relationship..communication and obviously we did not have that at all. I am not asking to be back the best of friends but just having an understanding vise versa because I want to see the other side 
And maybe this person can careless about me and about my life... maybe who knows it just bothers me to know how tight we were ..well atleast i thought... and how we are not anymore. I do apologize for not being there when you needed me but how am I suppose to when you never tell me you need to talk or anything. Just know friendship stands for to me that no matter what the distance or the time limit we go without talking or seeing eachother... that person is still a friend because that is real friendship. Everybody has a life and everybody does not converse with every friend they have everyday.. and i know i do not converse with my sisters everyday because i am in college and i understand people have lives too.... but i do know that does not mean i am going to stop being there friend regardless of what my life seems to be filled with.
I guess God just wanted me to write this out and understand it more. Will this person ever read this...who knows...it is a small world... well thats what they say.
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